Rearing up the little ones is such an easy and lovely task that could be cherished and done! The only thing that the parents should have is patience! Remember that you are molding up your kids who are more or less as the characteristics as you! So, always while correcting your kid or rebuking him, just take a short flashback as how you were at his age!
Children are of course naughty and it is your tactic to both admire the waywardness and simultaneously put them in the right shoes! Whatever you express, make it a point to express it kindly and at the same time, be firm in your talk. Keep kindness and stubbornness in the right weighing scale and you are sure to reform your kid of his mischievous deeds!
Parenting course is not so difficult for the mothers as they are already accustomed with so many changes that comes to them soon after the delivery. The Paternal care is what that takes some time to be inculcated! Ever since the birth of the baby, the father would generally have the mentality to rear up the little one like a prince or princess. But in the due course of time, be it father or the mother, they get to know about the little mistakes their children commit.
At this point it is very important to understand that humans, as such are no one perfect. And so, instead of scolding, rebuking them with severe punishments, make them understand the outcomes of their small blunders and the ways of rectifying them. This would strengthen the parents’ bond with the children.
The delicate duty of parenting is such a beautiful task knitted with love and joy along with lots of care and a pinch of anger. The term ‘pinch of anger’ is to be stressed here because, anger too plays the important part in molding your child’s care. It does not mean that you should always exhibit an angry face to your kid and look like a Hitler!
When the anger should be shown, it must be rightly used to knock out the bad things in your child. For instance, your kid abuses someone else, with some bad words, instead of admiring his talking skill, you ought to show your anger to make him feel that what he has done is wrong and needs correction. In this way, at the right time, the parents should not fail to show their anger to correct their kids.
While taking care of the kids, as good parents there are lots of delicate matters to be handled carefully. Some kids would be of open type by expressing as what they feel while some others would be very moody and reserved. It is quiet easy to deal with the kids of former type while the latter has to be treated with great care keeping in mind about their future growth too.
As such kids do not show themselves up and tend to bottle up their feelings, they should be shown more attention and care as every movement of them has to be watched very carefully. Only when the parents get into their personal circle of the kids could they fathom them well and in fact guide them properly in the future.
Parenting is a great blessing which the mankind could ever get. According to science, humans are the only gifted creatures where the parents nurture and protect their children until they reach their twenties even! While in other animals, they take parenting to be a duty, it is we, humans differ from them with our sixth sense in this matter.
The love and care that humans offer to their kids in their parenting period is really great as the other animals and birds are deprived of this loving parental care at a very tender age. So, we should feel so great and proud to enjoy this parental love in the form of our father and mother. And of course, we ourselves are one day going to be parents and nourish the greatness of parenting! Don’t you agree?
In the course of looking after the kids, the role of mother is much more and vital than that of the father. It is the mother who could comprehend the true feelings of her kid. This makes it clear that the way a kid grows up and forms his or her character in the future are all depended on the way he or she is brought up at their tender age. Anything, good or bad, taught at the tender age gets to stay in their brain forever.
And after that it is not so easy to change them. Even if they reach the rationalizing age of finding out the good and bad, they could not change themselves as they have been brought up with the same attitude at the small age without suggesting the corrections for them. Hence good or bad, mother is responsible for the child’s character.