Parenting is an indigenous process that is self-learnt by all the mothers! Naturally, they get the tactics of dealing their kids and it is not any course that they learn from out! It is a matter of issue for the fathers in the beginning but they too get to learn this art very soon. Be it mother or father, both have the ideal role of forming their kids’ character.
While the mother automatically gets to know about her child from the very tender age, she has the greater possibility of being with her children. So, this is an advantageous fact for both the mother and kid as they get the closeness that leads to better understanding. Whatever it might be, it is only after the mother’s love that the father’s care comes!
The delicate duty of parenting is such a beautiful task knitted with love and joy along with lots of care and a pinch of anger. The term ‘pinch of anger’ is to be stressed here because, anger too plays the important part in molding your child’s care. It does not mean that you should always exhibit an angry face to your kid and look like a Hitler!
When the anger should be shown, it must be rightly used to knock out the bad things in your child. For instance, your kid abuses someone else, with some bad words, instead of admiring his talking skill, you ought to show your anger to make him feel that what he has done is wrong and needs correction. In this way, at the right time, the parents should not fail to show their anger to correct their kids.
In the course of looking after the kids, the role of mother is much more and vital than that of the father. It is the mother who could comprehend the true feelings of her kid. This makes it clear that the way a kid grows up and forms his or her character in the future are all depended on the way he or she is brought up at their tender age. Anything, good or bad, taught at the tender age gets to stay in their brain forever.
And after that it is not so easy to change them. Even if they reach the rationalizing age of finding out the good and bad, they could not change themselves as they have been brought up with the same attitude at the small age without suggesting the corrections for them. Hence good or bad, mother is responsible for the child’s character.